Hey, Julie, I'll tell you what I think - take it FWIW!
If you can see some good in both S and BIL, and offer them both comfort and support - then go for it. You don't HAVE to pick "a side" if that's not what feels right to you. We've all seen plenty of sitches here where it wasn't "a good guy vs. a bad guy" - it was just two people making mistakes, struggling, and suffering.
You've got a good heart - trust it. ((((Hugs!))))
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Hey, Julie, I'll tell you what I think - take it FWIW!
If you can see some good in both S and BIL, and offer them both comfort and support - then go for it. You don't HAVE to pick "a side" if that's not what feels right to you. We've all seen plenty of sitches here where it wasn't "a good guy vs. a bad guy" - it was just two people making mistakes, struggling, and suffering.
i totally agree with Rob. I can understand the icky feelings coming back. Blech! Just be the best Sis and sis in law that you you can be.
found out about affair 8/06 H moves out Nov/06 D final 8/07 X re marries OW 5/08 _________________________ Courage does not always roar, sometimes it is a quiet voice at the end of the day saying... " I will try again tomorrow". -- Mary Anne Radmacher
I find it amazing that in your small town you have such good sushi. I have to travel 28 miles. There's something fishy about this!
Hi Julius!!!!
Awwww....B started school and I bet Mom is a little teary eyed. I'm choking up for you. Yes I want pictures of both of the girls. Give them a hug for me!
About the bailing out....Se will only be sober until a certain time, and I'm sure I can behave myself and not be a public spectacle until at least 7pm. So what good is she.
Sure when the going gets tough....Julie is stuffing her face with sushi and margarita's....I deserve so much more!
well, to be honest, the sushi restaurant is 60 miles away so we're road tripping up and then coming back down for margs... can't wait!! You should join us, Bethie... hop a plane now and we'll pick you up at the airport in grand jct!
