Ahh Karen, In their minds, the guy BELONGS to them, the ow. I know that is what maggot thought from the moment she slept with H. I was an inconvenience she had to get around. I was totally oblivious to the fact she was even in the picture. When H was living with her then decided to move back home - he was very upset - he felt like he was cheating on her. He grieved her. He was far more upset with the hurt he was causing her than ANYTHING he had done to hurt us. None of it made any sense at all - but that is where his mind was at.
