Thats probably a good idea. I can't imagine she would be really comfortable there either, knowing that W lives there. From a woman's perspective, I wouldn't be.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Well the IT dept here at work must have woke up, because FB is once again restricted. I'll check out the pics tonight. Hey, is new-gf name same as w?
And, sorry but the above example does not prove you are a new person. It's normal to be "easy-going" with a new interest. They are at the stage where they can do no wrong.
I'll let you know what I think about the new pictures.
Well, I hate to give dating advice to someone who's still married..but dude ease up some. No one wants to be smothered. One text message or one email a day should be enough. Let her breathe. Remember, she's just getting out of a relationship as well.
Pictures are innocent enough. Well, raunchy (one), but innocent.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
Well, I hate to give dating advice to someone who's still married..but dude ease up some. No one wants to be smothered. One text message or one email a day should be enough. Let her breathe. Remember, she's just getting out of a relationship as well.
Pictures are innocent enough. Well, raunchy (one), but innocent.
Yep agreed, i was very tired yesterday, you know what tired does
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Well, I hate to give dating advice to someone who's still married..but dude ease up some. No one wants to be smothered. One text message or one email a day should be enough. Let her breathe. Remember, she's just getting out of a relationship as well.
Pictures are innocent enough. Well, raunchy (one), but innocent.
Hey Sawks, listen to this one, LadyBug has it right. No one likes being smothered, and a younger person's life is still wide open with opportunity whereas as we make choices in life, they typically constrain our future options. So, right now, she has all the attention and options in the world and anyone seeking to reign that it will not be a positive.
I like how people have pointed out that the DB advice works here too. Don't pursue and GAL.
I just want to say that I'm sorry you ended up here, but, you will be better for having gone through the DB work. I work with a man who was married for 23 years and divorced for less than a year. I hope things work out well for him, but, that seems awfully hasty.
Well, I hate to give dating advice to someone who's still married..but dude ease up some. No one wants to be smothered. One text message or one email a day should be enough. Let her breathe. Remember, she's just getting out of a relationship as well.
Pictures are innocent enough. Well, raunchy (one), but innocent.
Hey Sawks, listen to this one, LadyBug has it right. No one likes being smothered, and a younger person's life is still wide open with opportunity whereas as we make choices in life, they typically constrain our future options. So, right now, she has all the attention and options in the world and anyone seeking to reign that it will not be a positive.
I like how people have pointed out that the DB advice works here too. Don't pursue and GAL.
I just want to say that I'm sorry you ended up here, but, you will be better for having gone through the DB work. I work with a man who was married for 23 years and divorced for less than a year. I hope things work out well for him, but, that seems awfully hasty.
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Thanks, I do appreciate all the advice. I may have gotten too quick too soon, so i decided after some rest, to slow it down considerably. I likely just want to be friends at this point anyways, new girl likes being around me, and vice versa that's cool. But nothing at this point should be more than that. Yes DB can be applied here as well. I'd like to get into my own space soon, if the market only didn't stink so bad. Haven't seen/heard from the W in several days, only spoke briefly after I got back from camping and very briefly after Tom petty show. Yes it is unfortunate i ended up here, but it's what you make of it.
Yes GAL is what i need to do, how attractive could it be to not do so? Likely not. I sent her a text regarding a job she was asking about, balls in her court.
