Thanks everyone. H keeps tm me saying that he wants to be friends and all that. But what I think he plans on doing is lying to OW and sneaking talks to me on the side. As if I am the OW??? Maybe at this point I am, but I am not comfortable with that at all.
I just think that is the last thing to worry about-the OW. You know, whatever happens and she was/is taking a risk getting involved with a married man who I believe still does love you. So I think you shouldn't worry about that at all!!!
But--I do worry your XH is going to hurt you. He seems to do that a lot I guess b/c he's mixed up, messed up or whatever. I think you should be very, very careful with him in the near future, and be friends or not whatever you feel like doing, but maybe not really close friends esp. for a while? Karen
