So true! If I can do this, you can definitely do this! It sounds like something you could/should really work on is trying to go alone and being ok with that and actually maybe even becoming happy about being alone or going places alone? I don't think you have to go all those places alone; I will certainly never go to a bar alone, but I have gone out with other friends and that's been fun. I do go to church alone, and I need to work on that also! I think maybe it's just something you get used to. I've also gone from R to R, well started dating my freshman year in college and then almost always had a boyfriend. I think that is good on becoming independent and more ok with that, and something I am working on too.
I was doing that too, getting maybe too close to a guy friend, and realized that and backed off. I think that's what happened to my H too, but he didn't back off when you get to the point where you realize that it might be a problem. And truthfully what kind of person gets involved with a married person even if they are having problems? I do think there is something wrong with those OPs to be able to do that or be interested in that. Karen
