I really don't think about ex all the time. Nor do I wish him and his OW bad. Cause I just don't think about it. Or make trouble for them either. Cause I just don't care.
But, like Karen, I am human. I would be happier if they split and he was with someone else. Because then my kids would spend more time with him since they do not tolerate maggot and will not go to his house or go on vacation with their dad because of her.
Karma...
I have a friend whose H left her 2 years ago. Major MLC. Very pushy ow (so much like maggot). Then he got cancer (and NO - I do not wish that on either my ex OR maggot or ANYONE).OW pushed very hard for his divorce and her marriage to him. I encouraged my friend NOT to divorce him. Especially under the circumstances. She did not. OW was furious. My friend and her kids had to visit him in hospital with OW there as well. Very uncomfortable. I heard from her today. One year today since Mike's death. She and the kids visited his grave, took flowers. OW not heard from anymore. Guess she didn't get the money and run. She just ran. Probably moved on to her next "quest".
