JUST USED LRT-WHAT DO I DO NOW???

[Sanderika]

The NASCAR race was something my friend and I did together with our sons aged 12. We loved it more than the boys did, we were surprised by that.

I have always enjoyed motor sports.

I grew up boating with my family. My H and I had a boat for a while.

I love motorcycling as a rider not a driver. Last summer I did obtain my MC drivers permit. My H and I toyed with the idea that I would drive BUT is fizzled out in H eyes. SO...I have never used that. I can reapply for a 2nd year on the same permit but will have to do it this month or it will expire.

I actually drive a dirt bike with my S12. He has his own and I can drive Hs bike. It's a lot of fun, we have a lot of land so we don't have to leave our property.

I do like to go out dancing...drinking is not really my thing. I can socialize but I prefer alcohol in small doses. My system can't really handle it. I end up totally conjested when I even have two glasses of wine or hard stuff, I believe it is some sort of allergic reaction. I would not be able to keep up with most crowds in this dept. I also do not have a big stamina for staying out late. Midnight is fine with me and later than that I never feel very good the next day. My H has a huge tolerance for staying out until the wee hours (even towards dawn works for him) and as most typical men, can hold way more liquor than me. My H is a truck driver and I hate to say it but he can handle any day of the week on 3-4 hours of sleep. He has groomed himself for it over the past 25 years.

My best friend told me I need to be really flirty with H. Not over the top and immature, but flirty in a way that H feels I am all about him.

Most activities I like are day trips out sightseeing, perfect for a motorcycle. I like to try local restaurants and stay away from the chain restaurants, just like H.

I can't really think of something that my H does that is easy for a female. Most motor sport activities are instigated by the men in our lives.

My H and I have a very large collection of restored and unrestored antique vehicles of all sorts. That was a huge common interest for us both. We would enjoy that activity perhaps more than most others we did together. BUT as of March we have not really participated in that together. The vehicles sit on our barns untouched, never driven...for 3 years now because H can't do things with us because of the OW. We used to take them to shows and take one out for a short drive to a local ice cream stand or to a parade or to a local human interest event like a fair, etc... We all had so much fun restoring them and using them, people love to see old vehicles out and about. We have some very unique ones and they would always draw a crowd.

OH, I don't know how I can do anything except hang out with my friends at a local bar like I did last Saturday, I know it will get back to H that I did that.

He is taking a hard core approach to me now...I can't believe it.

Does anything I do now even matter to him???

Sanderika