You are right PH, he mentions did I ask for your advice help etc. He needs to figure this out. I am going to work even harder at not giving advice or feeling resentful and just be supportive and encourage h.
This is what I am going to pray about. Thanks.
glam, Not giving advice/help without his asking will be a great 180 for you. And I think being supportive and encouraging of your H will only make him love you MORE!! Give him REAL love, i.e. loving him the way he needs. In time, he will be ready to love you the way you need.