How are you doing PH? Are you still working long days?
My h has NO tatoo's nor has he ever mentioned that he would like to have one. He did mention something about bonding with our s19 with tatoos.
I hope he plans to stay with us. This is all so confusing.
I am trying to step back from the picture and recognize that I just need to support my h and not give him any advice or direction. He just doesn't seem to appreciate my advice. I don't do it out of judgment or anything, it's just my nature and I can see the end result if my h doesn't follow it, but he is a grown man.
He will be here wed, thur sun and I am not sure about sat.
glam, I am not working long days but there is alot of work to do, and pressure. Deadline on Friday. I am hanging in there even though I really do just want to cry and cry and cry, if I have the time. Today, I noticed myself tearing up a couple of times, thinking about and missing my H. I had to pull myself together because I had to go meet with people to discuss work-related issues.
I really have good feelings about your situation. Like I said before, I would rather be in your shoes than mine now. I am also like you in that I like to give advice out of love and concern. Problem is men hate being told advice, unless they ask for it. They want to be respected unconditionally. I bet your H finds it so hard that he's depressed because he may think he's not worthy of respect due to his pression. So maybe you need to work harder than ever to NOT give advice or direction. Also, I noticed he's younger so he may feel mothered when you give him advice.
I hope you have a good time with him tomorrow and the next few times you see him.
Today, I noticed myself tearing up a couple of times, thinking about and missing my H. I had to pull myself together because I had to go meet with people to discuss work-related issues.