"i have no clue how to do this. honestly. without starting to go out with someone else......which i don't want to do. ya know? any insight...outside of detaching, of course..."

See... your scope is too narrow. Emotion is driving the car.. even in what you thought was a good answer.

What is a "Alpha Male"?

If you digest the words.. it is..

First Man.

or

One Man.

or

Top Man.

"Alpha" is one of those words.. that can mean a lot of things.

When you step back and look at the word.. it means the "Best".

He has the most women.

He has the most attraction.

He seems to know it all.

He seems the most handsome.

Quite simply.. he can stand on his own.

He wants something to come to him.

and he knows how to do draw it close.


Relax
Eat
Think
Act normal
React.. Smartly.
Do something different.
Emulate.
Do Work.

Lets get "RETARDED" in here.