Well, I have been reading and lurking for a while....then I saw that there were Mojito's here, so I had to log in!!! I do believe we reap what we sew. Do I want my X to be happy with his marriage to OW....eh, don't really care. I am sure it is not the bed of roses he expected, but that's his problem not mine. I do know that I will never be friends with them, and that is my choice. I can forgive, but I don't forget.
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
