Reason to Believe on the Lake Erie Shore

[Neilh23]

OMG. now my eyes hurt too FG

not to defend myself, but i'm going to anyways...

i already was going to back off and do my thing. She spoke to me loud and clear about that. I actually noticed last week how i was pressuring her...and i decided then to back off. I did call her "babe" by mistake yesterday....and said sorry. She responded by saying that's ok i know you didn't mean it. i said, yeah true, but you are a babe......

i guess i interpreted detaching is doing what i want to do.

But instead, he blew up at me and told me that he would never give me a divorce!

i did say this to her sandi...back in april in the midst of a huge blow up where she said i was controlling and someone who controls is like someone who physically abuses their spouse. wasn't good. but that was 4 months ago.


SG.....LOL....that made me laugh. I have to look back and see what's working for me.....

i think it's just being Neil...with added attachments that make me better.

FG said something to me....waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay at the start of me posting here...."be the alpha male, but don't act like the alpha male".....i think that applies here.

She is not going to want you until she thinks she can't have you.

i have no clue how to do this. honestly. without starting to go out with someone else......which i don't want to do. ya know? any insight...outside of detaching, of course...