Hey R2C - Thanks for stopping by - just getting caught up with your sitch. Sorry I dropped off the planet, but needed to for sanity sake!

Sounds like things are going about the same for you as me - however, I feel I am totally out of my M and no hope for us. My only solstice is my kids are older.

All's I can say is that once WAW moved out, my life got considerably better. As you know by my thread, I was going to not leave any stone unturned - like you. Going out for the first time was very strange after being married for 24 years. I am not taking anything for granted anylonger.

Enjoy your kids, enjoy your life - it is too short. R2C - you are a good man - and like you said "enjoy the moment" you deserve it!

I will keep in touch, promise! I go to the lawyer tomorrow for mediation and will move out of the house next month as STBX will stay in the house for good reasons.

Take care my friend!

M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19
Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16
Divorce final 10/09