Originally Posted By: I'mstillhopeful
maybe there is someone out there who is looking for the person who I am becoming.

Whoever that may be is a lucky son of a gun. =)

This experience we're having is turning us into even more spectacular creatures. It's not what we would have chosen, but we can choose to learn, grow and embrace the experience for what it will give us.

I hope your day is peaceful tomorrow. I've been having lots of mixed emotions today. Thinking about the excitement I felt at this time four years ago... Oddly enough, I thought my husband was a fool to marry me (because I was a bit of a mess) and today I think he's a fool to let me go (because of who I've become).

Know you're in my thoughts. xo


M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence