Thanks y'all! Puppy, I don't have time to get that book by tomorrow's interview but will def. get it if I don't get this job. I mean I made it to the final 4 or 6 or whatever, so I'm not getting my hopes up but hopefully this will at least be good practice on interviewing.
Well, H came over kind of early today at 6:30. I pretty much just ignored him though, never rude but more detached, and went upstairs and did the usual workout thing and H stayed down with the kids. It was cute he called me downstairs though b/c the warning light was on indicating a hot stove and he thought I had left it on I guess, but I told him it goes off after 5 or 10 minutes or something after you cook. Other than that, didn't really talk to him.
You know, Puppy or anyone that cares to comment, you're supposed to do what works or if not do something else. Do you think I should be doing what I am doing (and have been doing these last few months)? I have gotten stronger, more independent, confident, and don't want to change that.
I for the most part avoid H but occasionally I mess up like today I called or I might do some friendly emails, but I try not to. Am I doing this right do you think or should I be doing something different? I mean I guess there is only so much to do with H having an active A & OW and all. I work out all the time, have done what I can do re: the physical, the house looks greater; I'm getting clean & more organized each week, etc. Does anyone have any advice for me??? It's so easy to see what everyone else should be doing but it's like I'm blind in my own situation. Thanks you guys!!! Karen
Karen, Karen, Karen. Kar, baby. How long have you "known" me on here? Have you EVER known me to NOT tell someone if I thought they were NOT doing it right???
You're doing great. The ONLY thing I think you need to work on is your self-confidence, and you ARE working on that, and we've seen you grow right before our eyes. Yeah, you occasionally pursue a smidge, but nothing major, and then you're back with your game face on again.
Hell, if I wasn't married, I'd drive out I-10 and ask you out, so you MUST be doing things that are attractive. Seriously.
Karen, Karen, Karen. Kar, baby. How long have you "known" me on here? Have you EVER known me to NOT tell someone if I thought they were NOT doing it right???
OMG, Puppy, you just cracked me up so bad!!! Of course I know that , but I always think sometimes since we are friends you might sugar-coat it or something and not want to hurt my feelings not that you ever did of course, but you know what I mean. I mean if I am veering off course or doing something wrong, I just want you to feel free to let me know and I so appreciate that!!!
Yeah, I'm working on the self-confidence, maybe getting a job will help as I've always had people tell me great stuff when working (you don't get much positive feedback when you're a sahm or at least I didn't)! And I'm going to keep up with the TKD too of course which should help once I start breaking boards and everything! Karen
Karen, did I not tell you what puppy just said when we talked on Saturday!! OMG. I guess we each can see stuff that the other didn't(or what we thought no one else noticed!);)
You could also where a nice blouse and skirt combo or a knit top with skirt for your interview. You are going to do fine. What time is your interview?
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
You could also where a nice blouse and skirt combo or a knit top with skirt for your interview. You are going to do fine. What time is your interview?
kat
Not until 1:30 but it's a 45 minute drive (according to googlemaps)!!! So I was planning on leaving about an hour early b/c I've also never been there before & just in case there's traffic or whatever. I'm going to try to stay calm: whether I get the job or not it's all good--if I don't, then there's probably a better job out there for me anyway...(but I'm sure I'm going to be so nervous anyway)!. I'm probably going to spend most of tomorrow am just trying to figure out what to wear! I wish I did have a suit; I'm seriously going to get one if I don't get this job! Karen
I didn't wear a suit, just a nice dress and my boss hired me anyway! He keeps saying I am smarting then he...bs! lol You will be fine. Keep seeing yourself getting the job and I bet you will!
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
but it's like I'm blind in my own situation. Thanks you guys!!! Karen
