Neil, you are hitting the same bump in the road I am. Your W gave you a HUGE note that explained a lot. She told you what you were doing wrong. You're lucky. My W's idea of a huge note is a single paragraph haha.

Anyhow, just like I said before. Act as if.....you have nothing to lose. Just like Sandi said....high school....hard to get, cool, relaxed, no big deal.

Make sure you follow up on that co-dependancy. It's a B*tch. I suffer from it as well, but haven't gone to counseling for it. I'm trying to work things on my own.


Me: 30
W: 27
Married: 9/2007
ILUBNILWU: 1/2008
W moved out 5/24/2008
W suicide 8/25/2009