Your H could be coming around. Just act kind to him and don't jump to any conclusions or have expectations. Don't jump at the first ring when he calls and end the conversation first.
Continue working on you because you are the most important in all of this.
My H did the same thing on and off for 6 months...when I finally "acted" like it was nice to hear from him but my life did not revolve around him anymore, he wanted to reconcile.
So I tried...and over a year later we are still building a better marriage. Yes, H did have OW but in my case she was younger. We went through all the filing and court proceedings and just when I thought my D was going to be final, H came back!
It is amazing how much the WAS needs the LBS when all of a sudden they realize they are not the center of attention any longer.
