Neil, I'm reading CoDependent No More right now. It's so creepy at times I have to stop reading because I finally understand what others have been telling me for years. I place too much value on H's opinion/reaction/needs/wants etc. and NONE on my own. I thought that's what a good wife did. Wrong! Peace.
Me:44, WAW hx bi-polar H:48, hx of abuse S:22, S:19, D:16 Filed Oct 08, dismissed Filed again Jan 10, dismissed Now Piecing alter persona: SuperBoots
