Same here... I dont know what happened Monday...but it will only matter if it hit your chart on some personal planet or sensitive point, so I could check (?) but for me, it was very dramatic... I called him and for the first time in 6 months he said "I dont really want to talk"... which hurt. Seems to be ringing true.
I admire your ability to focus on you and your D, thats really admirable. I can see how its unacceptable too that he chooses to kick back and hang out on a Sunday instead of see his D.. having kids is a full time commitment, shouldnt involve taking the weekends off! I suppose its part and parcel of his general air of being a bit selfish and doing what he wants to do at this stage of his life. He may regret that when he's older (and shes older) and he looks back on it. Not whilst he's in it though.
I agree, you are a very balanced, serene person ! I feel like a whirling dervish on double espresso compared to you!
Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread