whatdidido: anything is possible. If it were me, I wouldn't do anything drastic until the D is final. After that, I would move on, unless there were signs otherwise.
Yes anything is possible, the D should be final by the end of this year. I've already decided not to do anything until D is final. It wouldn't be right, I'm probably going to talk to my parish priest about an annulment of our marriage, becasue the church will still consider me as being married.
W has my head so screwed up, I wouldn't even know what signs to look for. I do think I'll be able to tell is she crashes, everyone in St Louis will know.
Just keep swimming, just keep swimming
M45 W41 M10.75 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 W files for D 07/18/08 Date I'll forgive W for A = never