So my point is this...you have to take this role on yourself first and BE that man who can and will take his woman for a quicky deeply passionate 5 minutes of making out, whenever you want to.
To be sure, you know I am not suggesting you just start slamming your wife up against a wall once a day. BUT...I bet if you give it a try just ONCE in the next few days, grab a handful of some part of her body or her hair when she isnt expecting it and as she is opening her mouth to either gasp or protest, you plant a deep kiss on her before she can get the words out...then work with the kiss and the caress for at least 10 full seconds before you let her up for air...then touch her face and tell her "You know, sometimes the world will try to get in the way, but I wanted to remind you that you are still MINE and mine first". Then release her and go on with your business.
You can do it Baggy. I know you can!
DONE.
And now DQ can say: "See? I told you that would work!"
I read your post; looked between my legs (metaphorically) and verified that, yes, there's a pair of balls there; went out and dragged the wife by the hand into my home-office (away from sight of the kids); and smooched her up good. I even used a form of your quote on her.
To which she simply smiled, nodded, and snuggled her head into the crook of my neck.
Bloody women....I will never figure you guys out! I love ya, truly, but you all drive me nuts!
-- B.
Last edited by Bagheera; 08/12/0809:58 PM.
Me 50, W 45, M for 26 yrs S25, D23, S13, S10 20+ year SSM; recovery began Oct 2007