Yep. He calls it "mirroring". it's the same concept. i was so dependent on her for my feelings/emotions/life that it was unhealthy. I looked to her to mirror everything for me.....it's complicated, but yeah we have

it went both ways too. she was super dependent on me for stuff to. esp. at the beginning of our R. she just detached sooner than i did.

Last edited by Neilh23; 08/12/08 09:52 PM.
ME:32 WAW:31
D #1: 3.5 D #2: 2
Together: 13 M:6
Bomb Dropped: 2/15/08
Sep legally: 6/18/08

"Tommorrow there'll be sunshine, and all this darkness past..."
-Bruce Springsteen Land of Hope and Dreams