My mental deadline is May 2009, this will be a year from when I started my campaign to work on myself and to turn this sucka around.
I forgot to mention that the SSM book has now disappeared. In part of our "discussion" on Sunday I mentioned that she hadn't touched SSM in well over a month now and that I really needed her to read that and take it seriously. This means: (a) That she is reading SSM now or (b) The SSM book is blowing around on the roadside somewhere on the way to mother's house.