I would strongly advise against sending the e-mail. It will only come across as insincere and weak.
I agree. I've tried to take the high road (well after the first month or 2! ) and am really happy about that. I know that I've done my best for the M, esp. the past year, I've tried to handle this with dignity, etc. I think you might regret that email later, and just best to not do that probably. I did send one email to the OW back months ago when I found out who she was and it really didn't make me feel good or have any satisfaction, and my H seemed to think that was bad of me (you look guilty) he told me although I didn't necessarily feel guilty, but not really satisfaction either. More numb than anything. Karen
) and am really happy about that. I know that I've done my best for the M, esp. the past year, I've tried to handle this with dignity, etc. I think you might regret that email later, and just best to not do that probably. I did send one email to the OW back months ago when I found out who she was and it really didn't make me feel good or have any satisfaction, and my H seemed to think that was bad of me (you look guilty) he told me although I didn't necessarily feel guilty, but not really satisfaction either. More numb than anything. Karen