Ali - I know you said you don't have sisters, but don't you have a close female cousin or friend you could get away with for a long weekend? You didn't really address my suggestion. It doesn't have to be a sister, but you DO need the time away, so you can think about YOU instead of about H for a few days. That is what you need, hun. Please think about it.
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You are right I am sorry I didnt address your suggestion. I honestly thought I had. Anyway yeah I have a few close friends. I do need some time to myself. Even the kids are driving me nuts as of late. I feel so pulled in too many directions. Right now we are in the middle of moving.., 4 bedroom house. Running a business and a 17 year old that I love dearly but at times could choke. * wink * wink* Yes sitting on the beach with a Corona would be so awesome right now. And some coconut oil and a Cabana boy making sure I didnt miss a spot.... just kidding about the last part. Do they even still call them that?
Anyway I have a GF in Florida that I miss alot.... maybe her...
I am going to give it alot of thought and have been already DQ~
If you see the advice I was given on Sunday... I need to focus more on me and you are right he doesnt want me to be a softy.... I love you guys , you help bring out the best in me and are not scared to tell me what I need to hear! ~Ali