I'm sorry the crud. I can imagine how that's gotta feel. I think maybe this is a good time to really look closely at what you had to do to a few years back for yourself. Look at how you'd like to have handled things that weren't so hot, or how you did extraordinarily well at things that went great. Then, I think maybe applying some of those things to yourself, and to your family, might help you feel a little more in control and decisive on what YOU want. (You do know it's still about you, right?)
