I've never really had it all explained like that, i see whats happening with me, and it hurts that she isn't dealing with it right now, but she will in her own time. The whole, alien feelings things kinda makes sense as well.
I know I can be friends with her, but I'm scared that when it comes time to give it a try, she wont want to risk losing a friend? Regardless of what has happened and me staying her friend already?
I jump around a bit, ya can tell i'm confused
That is okay...we are all confused here! Three days after posting my little story on your thread, my H called again to tell me that he doesn't think there is a future for us. This time I told him I understood that, and didn't try to argue.
One of the biggest deals is to let them feel the way they want, even if you don't agree with it. Remember, they don't agree with you either. But they need to be able to feel the way they feel, until they don't feel that way anymore.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
