breton - yes there is an admitted OW, married (at least she was) and an associate at my H's law firm. I estimate she is 7-8 yrs. younger than H and I, but has a couple kids similar to slightly older in age.

As much as I thought I was prepared for this to happen (him moving out), it is very tough right now.

tipper - thanks, I think I am doing as well as I can right now. I will be okay no matter what happens.

Upside - that is a good reminder to let him know that I appreciate he is being a good dad given the circumstances. Like I said above, it seems like you can't really prepare yourself.

I will plug onward!

Nature Girl
M 40
H 40
M 15, T 19
D11 S9
bomb 3/07 (MOW)