Well, he's obviously confused...which is a good thing. Sounds strange, but confusion means that he hasn't made up his mind. He acknowledged that he doesn't want to lose you. At some point, I'd think he'd have to realize that by his own actions, he IS losing you. What would be a 180 that would get his attention? You need to show him that you are alright. It sounds like you're already doing that. Not being clingy, not breaking down in front of him. Be light-hearted, upbeat. And, if he thinks your friends are getting to involved. It's time to set some boundaries with the friends. I couple times of saying, "I don't want to talk about it" may be enough for them to stop meddling.
Welcome here. I'm sure you'll get plenty of advice, help, or just a place to vent when you need to.
There's another member here, TwinDad whose twins are the same age as yours (I think).
Anyways, welcome.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
