This summer I have been to a local resort town at the beach with friends twice. I have been camping/tenting once. I have been to a local state park. I go out for dinner with friends (sometimes bring son along), I am going out tonight with two of my best friends for dinner. I have been twice to a cabin owned by friends up in the north woods. I have a girlfriend who has a son 12 too, and we do things together with our boys like shopping, movies, mini golf, go-carting, dinners out. I have been shopping many times with girlfriends. I went to a local bar, dancing and hanging out with some other friends last Saturday night. Back in June I went to a NASCAR race with friends. I have a veggie garden that I share with another family and she and I get together and weed the garden and socialize. Sometimes we meet at the garden and have cocktails.
I am not reclusive. I do spend a lot of time just with S12. He needs me.
I do admit I could do more. My H did say he didn't think I was fun anymore. I keep looking for more to do....
ME48/H48MLC T 33y M 28y S16 OW 8/7/05 Bomb 8/16/05 Sep 9/05 H f'd D 10/3/08 D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09 D dismissed 2/5/10 H served me D papers again 9/4/10 D dismissed 9/26/11