IMHO, when he rushed into marrying the ow shows that he is not in his right mind. He will see that he has made a big mistake. Like I told you before they have only seen the good in each other and not the bad. When the bad happens he will fall apart!
Now what you need to do is get out there and stop worrying about your h and the ow. Let them spin themselves out of control. Do something for yourself!!!!!!
