Not really sure how to approach this as I have only started to follow you Alimari, but...staying out late and not having the ring on...STILL...I find bothersome.




I also find it bothersome.....


If I was upset that my W didn't have the same interest in sex that I did....but loved her...I could see how this could work thru with changes. If I spent months/years with the baby oil bottle, frustrated, and then found my W wanting me..and the sex was a plentiful as you have offered to your H...I think, in his shoes, I'd be overjoyed and, wel..uh...well satisfied.

I agree, he should be overjoyed and yet he is still very depressed

But..if there is an element of WAS here...I would just be careful.

I see what you are saying honey.... This could explain why I feel so unsure, as of late. He has me on a silver platter and he still isnt happy. This makes sense....



I haven't been here long enough to truly understand the dynamics of your M.


{ It would take you forever to read thru my threads please dont try... I will it explain it in next post}
{ it isnt pretty and you willl very well wonder whY I stayed, I am sure}


Is the new found sex with H....love and intimacy on his part?

Yeah he is actually very nice when it comes to lovemaking, very attentive... in this arena he shines.


If it was sex starved before, and now it is not, then, what is the issue?
I dont really know how to explain what his issue is. I am sure it is all about him. He says that I ...
empathy sex.... does that explain it some? He thinks I do things for him just for him that I derive no pleasure. That is hwy I started the 28 day journal.... if I just do it and it is regular he would see it for what it was?


Thanks for helping to explain some stuff.


No , Thank you for caring! \:\)

~Ali