TD,
I'll take Choice #2 -
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Truly let it go and put it in the past and create a loving and pressure free environment for him to come home to, thus increasing his desire to get back together
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You and Ali are totally right I need to let this go. I've been given excellent advice from everyone and now I need to pay attention and do the work.

I want to be M and happy but I also want him to be happy. I hope he can be happy M to me again.

Last edited by JenInVen; 08/12/08 03:59 PM.

Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*

The end of the DB road