thank you for the response... My M needed lots of work on my part when W strayed to OM. I slept alot from working graveyard shift, only got 1 or 2 nights off every 2 weeks to sleep with her at night. She hated being alone too. Too many variables. Thought our love would survive. I am told I was selfish a lot. Didn't want to go out or to church or to see family. But I went often.
More often than not I slept. 3rd shift beats you up


M 31 W 26
M 6
S 6 S 3
Separated 6/2008
Back together 10/2008
All you need is love