Not really sure how to approach this as I have only started to follow you Alimari, but...staying out late and not having the ring on...STILL...I find bothersome.

If I was upset that my W didn't have the same interest in sex that I did....but loved her...I could see how this could work thru with changes. If I spent months/years with the baby oil bottle, frustrated, and then found my W wanting me..and the sex was a plentiful as you have offered to your H...I think, in his shoes, I'd be overjoyed and, wel..uh...well satisfied. But..if there is an element of WAS here...I would just be careful. I haven't been here long enough to truly understand the dynamics of your M. Is the new found sex with H....love and intimacy on his part? If it was sex starved before, and now it is not, then, what is the issue? Thanks for helping to explain some stuff.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;