this might be hard to take because we all have done this in the beginning and that was to blame ow for everything. your h was just as much to blame for this as she was. they did get married which takes two people.
i think what you need to do is stop questioning the why's and what if's, what could have been, what would have been, etc.
also, it is times like these where people have to learn to be independent. go out and start doing things for yourself, go somewhere, buy something nice for yourself, get out there and surround yourself with people and friends.
this is now a time for you. don't dwell on what they are doing or have done. it will not change anything except make you feel worse.
until you get past this, you will not be able to proceed as well as you would have liked.
you can do this.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
