I don't know what to think about the long term myself!
I think we LBSs can't think long term. Right now figure out what to do to make it through today or maybe the week. When my H first moved out, I thought I needed to figure out what I was going to do...which way my life was going to go...I thought I had to know if it was it going to be with or without H. As time went on, leaving things open ended started to become a little easier. You can figure out what do about your H when things become clearer...when you have started to heal. Just take your time to figure things out.
Be thankful that your H is still being a good dad and let him know how much you appreciate that he is.
I know this has to be such a difficult time to get through for you. I remember sleeping (or trying to) on the couch for months because I couldn't sleep in my own bed. I just hope since you were able to prepare yourself, it isn't as difficult of an adjustment for you...of course, can you really prepare yourself?
Keep remembering all the things in your life that you are grateful for. Doing that helped me so much. Go out and do some things for you...and even though it may not seem like it, things will eventually get easier.
