Oh yes. A handsome man and a little baby is a huge turn on for a woman. I remember being at a social event when my dau was a couple months old. My brother would take her from me so he could go talk to the single girls. It was pretty amusing because I totally knew what he was doing.
Sawks, I just worry about you falling on your face. 3 mos is NOT a long separation to be seeing someone new. Let your house sell, get your own place that is JUST YOURS, and for God sake, let the ink dry on the divorce papers. You've not done all your greiving. Not if it only took you a month to get over your marriage.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
Oh yes. A handsome man and a little baby is a huge turn on for a woman. I remember being at a social event when my dau was a couple months old. My brother would take her from me so he could go talk to the single girls. It was pretty amusing because I totally knew what he was doing.
Sawks, I just worry about you falling on your face. 3 mos is NOT a long separation to be seeing someone new. Let your house sell, get your own place that is JUST YOURS, and for God sake, let the ink dry on the divorce papers. You've not done all your greiving. Not if it only took you a month to get over your marriage.
Well new girl sure liked it lol..
About falling on my face, i would have been worried about that in the past, but I think I am quite strong whereas in the past I was not..it was faked well..not so much anymore. I know what you are saying however, and i will try to sound less "excited" lol.. if i was in a rush to do anything, i'd be wanting to do stuff all the time. We are doing a movie and dinner tomorrow and supper on Saturday, i think that is pretty casual. We did "snuggle" on the weekend at the cabin. That's as far as it went and will go for quite some time. I am a romantic at heart and don't even think i'd try to hold her hand quite yet.. in time.. The thing too is it takes a year for the "ink to dry" here, i decided it is time to move on in my life, i don't think i should have to wait until next spring. It took closer to 3 months to see the WHOLE picture, and I know I have come to a place where I am good. I want the house to sell , i want to move out of the burbs and closer to downtown (work).
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
That is a good thing then. I don't know about you, but I hate every moment of it...
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
That is a good thing then. I don't know about you, but I hate every moment of it...
i think i just hit a point, where i am ok with it now. Time to move on. Did you see the pics i added on FB? now is it obvious ?(just wondering from female point of view)..
I went to a great concert last night, and really enjoyed myself, didn't even think about pending D or W.. and that is becoming more and more..
I saw that, Tom Petty. I love him...American Girl is my fav. I am glad you are having a good time.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Well i can confirm i am a "new" person.. new girl called and she can't make the movie tonight, her mom is very ill again, and it's the birthday of her(late) father..
In the past, i would have freaked out with " oh boy what do i do and so forth"
This time I just asked if her mom was ok and if I could do anything to help.
Well the IT dept here at work must have woke up, because FB is once again restricted. I'll check out the pics tonight. Hey, is new-gf name same as w?
And, sorry but the above example does not prove you are a new person. It's normal to be "easy-going" with a new interest. They are at the stage where they can do no wrong.
I'll let you know what I think about the new pictures.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
