(((((Stella))))) Try to hang in there a little longer. You've come so far and are now preparing to move to hometown with H. Don't drop the rope just yet. Give yourself some time to be back together and then you can make your decision. You can probably expect H to suffer withdrawal from his addiction to OW. You really need to prepare yourself for that eventuality. I have found this part just as difficult to deal with (if not more difficult) than initial bomb of PA.
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"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz