I struggle with the reality that they got married & the divorce papers. H & I were the one couple that were most likely to succeed, we were so close & so much in love.
He was in the house with me until Feb.2nd & then moved his things out in April, so it hasn't been that long since he left his stuff here.
When we went thru mediation in March he was really angry that I got the house & alimony. In the beginning he wanted to sell the house & split it 50/50. After I found out about OW I decided to go after the house, plus I have these 2 dogs & it's not safe for a woman to walk dogs at night by herself around here, anywhere for that matter. So, he was mad about me getting the house, he had done a lot of remodeling on it & said he didn't do all this hard work just to give it to me. If I'm made to sell the house I will get the proceeds from it he was just mad & told my SIL that I would loose it. He thinks that I wouldn't be able to make the payments or get it refinanced without me working full time. Yes, he can be spiteful at times, he has never been like this so I think the OW is adding to it. After her sending me the "thank you for my Husband & not sueing her" email that tells me she is spiteful & will do anything to hurt anyone. He is not like that or wasn't.
My dogs are a comfort, my oldest is 14 & going to the holistic vet, I just can't loose her right now so she is happy & comfortable I want her around as long as possible.
Thank you for the support! I try not to think about it but we had such a good time together & loved each other so much it's just hard to see this.
