Reason to Believe on the Lake Erie Shore

[The Wifey]

Neil,

You are ok. She let you know nicely. Go from there. Do not beat yourself up over this. I would definitely let the girls keep making her pictures, sending videos of the kids.

Then try thinking differently. Not I am doing this so she does or thinks this. How about I want to do this because I will feel happy, enjoy time with the girls, be more confident, have fun, etc. Only share with her your smile and serenity and how much you are enjoying life.

She knows how you feel. She acknowledged that she does. I think it was very important that she did. Now show her without telling her that you can give the way she needs you to give to her.

Right now that means backing off a little. But its like a lot of life, like a little dance. She notices you, but she isn't believing it yet. You have to make the changes a part of who you are and she will believe.