Let's Help Each Other to do a 180 in our Looks

[OnTheEdge22]

You could categorize me as your typical guy, very visual, very attracted to pretty young women (from a looking perspective, not cheating). But as I've gotten older (and wiser), I find myself attracted to lots of different women, different ages, different looks, etc...

I think I've figured out that the common thread is being "pulled together" and having a lot of self-confidence. There is only so much you can do with what God gave you (and don't get me wrong -- do everything you can with that -- exercise, eat right, etc...). But, at the end of the day, be really happy with that, and go out there with an attitude that you're hot, and you will be. By pulled together, I just mean don't go out or shopping in sweats, looking frumpy, etc... Put on something casual nice that works for you and then go out there and work it the best you can. Put on some make-up (if needed) and do your hair, but don't worry about that too much. Just be confident in who you are -- I find that very attractive. Look people in eye, smile a lot, flirt a little, and be confident you're the best you can be. Strike up a conversation with a stranger -- I'm shy, but have done that recently and I get some great responses.

I find myself more attracted to a woman's attitude these days than the physical features. Just my opinion...