I read your whole thread again. I can see where you are confused about what to do. Don't give up on reconciliation, Jeff. You shouldn't stay in a marriage JUST for the kids, but you love her and you could have a happy life with her. It IS in her hands, but you never know what changes could occur. It would be VERY hard work for both of you, but you could both have the happy, family life that you both want.
It's unbelievable about the lies. She is so broken, Jeff.
I'm sorry about your truck, too. Her talk about how she doesn't want bad things happening to you....she is feeling sooo guilty right now. She realizes how selfish she is and it hurts.
