Flirting in a fun manner is different than knowing me for 2 hours and saying I should come home with you. So flirting is ok. Sexual innuendos without even knowing my last name - no.
I guess I just feel like that is something that will take a while to get to - get to know me as a person first...ya know?
This is what I was agreeing with when I got my phone call! LOL!
While The Frenchman is the stuff of island vacations - in real life I have been having a tough time in the dating world b/c many men don't even bother to get know you. It is almost like you female - I find you attractive - me male - so we should hook up.
The beer tent man didn't even know my first name BEFORE he asked me out and started with the sexual innuendo within the first 10 sentences he spoke to me.
I tend to respond better to men that start with a normal conversation and if we seem to connect as in the conversation is engaging - then ask me out. Of course there is the other variable - there has to be some chemistry. In some cases, no matter how interesting the man or the conversation - it simply lacks the chemistry to be more.
