While I would also be frustrated at that conversation, I would take comfort in the fact that it wasn't what you thought it could be. It wasn't a conversation where she said she wanted to end things. Your profile says your W is depressed. I am pretty sure my H is also depressed. This leads to strange behavior and them saying things that make no sense. Maybe your W really just wanted to talk to you about what happened, and felt that she needed an excuse to do so, the excuse being to ask you if it was you.
Sounds like you handled it pretty well. How was the conversation left? Did you end on a positive note, was there any R talk of any kind?
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
