Neil,

Hang in there buddy. Look at the positive. Read your recent threads....you are "aware" of what is going on. That is progress. So many people just "flail" around on these boards and don't understand why things are not working. You can recognize the cheeseless tunnels. You recognize that your sitch is different from mine even if we are similar. You are still your W's best friend it is just she wants you to show it in a way that might not be what you "want" to.

Quote:
It is doing things from the heart even if it is causing you pain
It is about giving them what they need, not what you think they need


Basically it is real giving. It may mean it might take longer to reach your goal, but you need to give her what she needs. She has been good enough to tell you


TwinDad
Me 39, W 36, M 11
W - MLC, WAW????
2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old
Start of the Long and Bumpy Road.....
On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning