You are not sucking at this you just pushed it a little too far that's all. You pushed too far....your W let you know and she set up a new boundary.
Actually I think it was very nice of her to tell you about the boundary. That was love talking, she could have just got ugly with you.
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and i didn't tell her that today...it was awhile ago. i know i let it affect me earlier.......and she noticed. WTF
I know it was said earlier......regardless of when it was "said"...it is the actions that matter
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its amazing. i can't follow my own advice.....PMA.....detach....
It is much easier to give advice and to look at another persons sitch then to look at your own and implement the advice from others. When you can look at your sitch from a third person perspective then that is a goo dsign that you have detached.
Ex, I tell people all the time to GAL.....I actually think I am probably the worst person at actually getting a life. This is probably one of my biggest flaws. The exception is GAL with my kids.....that I think I excell at.
Focus on your time with your children. You had a good get together this past weekend. Find a new focus in them. I know you are a great Dad
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning