JUST USED LRT-WHAT DO I DO NOW???

[Sanderika]

brandnewday, Thank you....

I see that this MLC crap is all about the one in it...from reading this board...I see all the me, me, me. These people are so far from the truth. What gives them the right to be so hateful, hurtful and mean to those who love them and to those they loved for so long? Some appear to wake up and realize the damage being caused and others, well, never get it...they just remain in me-ville and continue on the stupid a$$ path.

I really thought my H was different. At least the H I know and love is different. I think you are telling me that I don't know this H anymore. I don't know him at all. For the past three years H has lived a life away from me so our intimate relationship is gone and is being replaced with an acquaintance, am I right?

This has happened because of H wants only. God knows I have tried and tried everything humanly possible to turn this unfortunate event around for the good of all of us. I tried to save my H from this day. I have worked so hard to save this marriage. I did try....now the tears. My S and I do not deserve to be here.

I will verify with a lawyer before I change any accounts. We have 2 credit cards together and no other debts except the day to day expenses of running a home and a company. I have not run up any debt on the card I usually use for home stuff, the other card is one we use for business purposes and it carries alarge balance every month but the company funds pay it off every month. My household bills and bank account statements have gone to the office because H changed his address. The OW and her BFF open all our mail. I could not convince H that that was wrong. I do have a mail issue I need to resolve. I will ask the lawyer about that too.

My H has been paying my health insurance, cell phone bill (it's still a company phone number) my gas for my vehicle. I wonder if he will cut these off too?

I do not deposit any of my money into our accounts anymore. I cash the checks. Our joint checking has a minimum balance in it only. I am happy I decided to do that back in March.

OH.....I want this to end. I want to know what my H is actually thinking now.

Barb told me above that H is going to try to control me so he can stop me from filing. Is this part of their sick MLC game and patterns?

I am sooooooo scared now. I am finally in a place I didn't see myself actually ever being in.....H is making me be here.

Thank you again...