A Rough Year Continues.... 4

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I don't want to say this too loudly... (knock wood) but I think I may be winning

H was at home last night when I finished at the practice range. He did not go to the bar! We had a nice evening together. I made a salad and we watched the baseball game.

When it came time for bed he began to get a little agitated. He brought up something that he thought I had done during the day that was "controlling" and that he was afraid that I would "go back to my old ways."

I thought of what you had said earlier in the day about him noticing that I had new behavior and I kept my PMA and simply said "if you would rather that I not do that, I won't."

This morning when he got up he asked if I wanted to join him in the hot tub for a mimosa! He was kidding about the mimosa since it's a work day, but I did join him and we talked about having them soon on a weekend.

Things do feel better!

Before work this morning he said that he had golf league tonight and asked what I would be doing. I said that I would be at home getting ready for the weekend, doing laundry etc. because I have appointments for Wednesday and Thursday nights. He said, well that's good that you won't be out "galivanting" around tonight. Guess he does care!