The thing is, i've told her that she's not responsible for my feelings...i just have to stop acting on them towards her. so did i backslide or is she just setting up another boundary?
Neil, You know better than this.....telling her anything isn't going to work......it is actions my friend. Show her she isn't responsible for your feelings. Show her the strong self confident Neil........oh by the way.....she will test this too, to make sure you are this person when she sees it.
It is good that you can start to sense when you are being pressuring.
Kjo gave you some good words of wisdom!
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
